Just to finish off. I released the PINs in the OEM harness using a safety pin and some needle nose pliers. Then I used the pins I ordered from mouser to slide into the harness. Everything is working now.
Hi All, just posted a 4 year review of this camera setup as well as a complete product teardown of the old one to see what's inside Had some fun with this one, and hope the review after years of use is helpful for some people considering this kit from eBay!